Things are so hectic over here.. Between tons of work, the shop coming up and small man's birthday, I am totally torn mentally, emotionally and financially... SO much stuff, and it feels like everything is happening at the same time.. I am sure people revel in chaotic situations, unfortunately I am not one of them. I prefer my problems, one ...
Is it possible to fall out of love with someone and fall into the valley of 'like'? I look at you, sitting across the table from me, and sigh to myself... I know in my heart, that we are on two different sides of the ocean - you love me, not because of me but because you have no one ...
There's nothing worse than feeling lost.. I think a close second is, knowing someone needs help, but nothing you can do will help. Both go hand in hand in the situation I am in today. Its hard to get into so I rather not go into it today.. But I just feel like there's no right answer to this issue. ...
Don't we all.. I think in a previous posting, I said one of the most human traits we all share is the concept of reassurance. We never know whether what we are doing is right but reassurance that we are going on the right path, always helps. I've had a crazy mind-bending weekend and its not of the good variety. ...
Is it just me, or does our wallets eat our money? I swear, the minute I manage to get some cash into my hands, it just finishes in no time... Its not like I am a shopaholic, honestly, I am not.. my son even needs some new pants, and I haven't had the time to go shopping.. But with groceries, ...
For my 13th post (how lucky) - I thought I would talk about freedom.. Although by definition, it means being independent. But is anyone truly free? It seems freedom is a double-edged sword, choice of opportunity cost.. In order to get something, something else must be sacrificed.I always use love/sex/marriage/friendship as examples but go with me on this... Before I ...
So says the insomniac... Its almost 2am and I still cannot sleep.. I guess lots on my mind and here I am, on the blogosphere, trying to sort out my thoughts and emotions.. Don't judge, its not like there's many people up at this time...Anyway, things I am trying to work through :-I am currently relocating my clothing store - ...
All over the social networks and text messages, and the endless advertising today, the theme of Mother's Day cannot be escaped. Yes, its completely over-rated but I totally bought into it today. From taking my little guy to see Rio to going with the hubby and my mother to lunch, we totally sucked into the blatant commercialism which is Mother's ...
No, its nothing like what you are thinking - I know my past posts seem a bit questionable but today is G-rated. As you may figure, I love to write... Whether it be writing blog posts, or magazine articles, I really do enjoy writing. I used to write for a number of publications but writer's block set in and I ...
Ranuka, one of my readers brought up an interesting topic - hooking up. This has been used back and forth and it's an interesting topic. Not because of the physical aspect but the whole concept. One can hook up with a boyfriend/girlfriend, that's acceptable but having a friends-with-benefits relationship, not so much.Personally, I like the idea of a friends-with-benefits idea ...
One thing I really don't understand with men (along with the many things I don't understand about them) is why they are so complicated? I mean, usually much is said about us women's fickle nature ("What do women really want?) but I think the more confused sex is definitely the male. No, this is not going to be an entirely ...
What would it be like to be married to two people - one who loves you unconditionally, buys you lots of presents, makes you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world? The other, an angry young man, who finds you repulsive, gets mad for the slightest infraction, throws your stuff out of the balcony window and locks you ...
Sometimes the biggest enemy to ourselves is... ourselves.. we can be our harshest critic, cruelest tormentor, strongest bully... why, maybe because the person who truly knows who we are.. is ourselves.. circular argument do i do realize, but do bear with me for a moment... We all have challenges to face, our crosses to bear.. but its the way we ...
Highschool is a terrifying time, full of hormones, stress, and new realizations.. it shouldn't have to be more scary with bullying... I was lucky enough not to be bullied, mostly because I not only kept to a few good friends but also I was able to verbally fight back. But I know of friends who were, and I hope I ...
Corny but true... sometimes it just takes three words to make your world go round... Not "I love you" but "stay here tonight"... I am not condoning casual sex, rather the concept of just being wanted... The idea of love has been overrated and overused. Love seems to be this mystical sappy syrup that is lapped by doe-eyed lovelies not ...
The other day, I was thinking, if I ever met St. Peter, what would I tell him? I am no scientist, I didn't discover a cure for cancer, I didn't broker a peace agreement between two warring nations, I am just an ordinary person..Granted, I have gone through less-than-ideal circumstances, what makes me different to anyone else? Does life work ...
These lyrics seems poignant right now.. Not a good day to be me, at the moment.."Little girl" lyrics:Little girlKisses her momTells her I love youHolds on to her handLittle girl doesn’t have muchShe walks with a smileShe’s so full of lifeBut she cries in the nightJust trying to hold onNo one can hearShe’s all aloneThis little girl closes her eyesAll ...
I do realize this is an odd way of starting a blog but here it is... I've started and stopped many blogs and I am hoping I will be able to continue this one... I've gone through too much heartache and too many issues, I hope this will help me deal with my problems better.. Hopefully someone who reads this ...