So if you read only one thing today, let it be this-- please, God, let it be this:(i'm posting it in full here, but please, take note: THESE WORDS ARE NOT MINE. the original can be found here).Dear Sugar,I read your column religiously. I’m 22. From what I can tell by your writing, you’re in your early 40s. My question ...

You need someone in your life who excites you, makes you nervous, and forces you to question what you think you already know. These usually come in the form of a crush or a relationship. A relationship is obviously ideal but a crush can tide you over like a nice appetizer. We spend so much of our time feeling jaded ...

[by Rosemarie Urquico]Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes. She has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.Find a girl who reads. You’ll know ...