Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Divorce


Love is something which has no reason in the world. But the marriage has a clear purpose in the society  Reproduction  or Sex. But the definitions for the marriage are altering from one society to another, and also it depends on the situation of the location. However the Indian society has much more moral slandered in the past. They call the marriage as god divined something which they can not challenge whatever is the reason. And also in the old Indian society the divorce is rare thing.  And also in Sri Lankan history divorce was a rare scene there are divorce situation but the end result was a suicide from the female part.
What matter the most is what is the social definition of the divorce in the society. In fact they says that the divorced women is not good for house she is not auspicious. The divorced woman bring nothing but troubles for the family therefore the sri Lankan society did everything to stop the divorce and the rules for the divorce was much more tougher. And also the divorced woman is like a symbol of unfertile plant. Therefore the divorced women are not common scene in the Sri Lankan society.  But unlike in any south Asian society Sri Lanka had the standard of the forgiveness toward the weakest. Therefore in most cases parents were tending to make chances for divorced female to marry another one. But the male had many more chances and in most stories the divorced male is more attractive than the unmarried males. 
But now after the industrial developments and the competitive society introduced to Sri Lanka the possibilities of the divorced. And also sometimes it becomes a passion for the well educated families. Whatever their obligation according to the international standards the ratio of divorcement indicate the lack of moral, sense in the society.
May be the reason for the divorcement can be complicated issues which acre relater with human emotions may b are just be cause of the economics. Whatever is the reason the divorce is not the solution for the existing problems. The connection between the person you married is much more important than another thing especially in case of your parents are not alive. Therefore my obligation is before the divorce we should understand the gravity of the divorce and the moral context of the divorce.
An also the most important fact that how we should discontinue the divorcements in the society. People can have many different attitudes toward this and that but we should have one attitude toward what we should do and what is the obligation of the society. Ok we don’t like the divorce ok we like it its ok this and that….. I think we are lacking that discipline sense in the society. Its shame to this island like killing animal can be worse to one man and it may be another joke another man. Therefore the people are struggling it find what is the good and the bad what they should do really.  

4 comments:

  1. 'Marriage' is when two people who find liking/loving/mutual attraction forming a legal partnership to go into the business of running a family.
    'Divorce' is the opposite of the above - a legal business parnership finding that they no longer stay in business together due to some reason or reasons. These reason(s) may be one sided or mutual.
    I don't think the 'wider Society' should try to make a big deal of either the marriage or the divorce. The 'Society' should stay out of private enterprise like 'family-union' or 'family-breakup'.
    In Sri Lanka, there are a lot of 'Broken-families', pretending that they are not 'broekn' and carry on painfully because of the pressure that the Society thrust up on them. This is wrong. Social pressure should not be the reason for two people to suffer unnecessarily.

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  2. Every culture there a problems in marriage. Unfaithfulness comes because of unsatisfied sex, mostly. 80% of divorce is same. The cultural issues are same for every person. But the best method to avoid that is. To understand each other very well try to treat each other as a other half.
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