I kind of gave up on this whole blog thing for a bit. I didnt feel inspired, didnt feel like I needed to say anything and then today at work ( yes at work ... today was a blah day for me) I read one of my friends blogs and I just felt inspired to start all over again. I ...

I heard this song after ages and I think I finally understand the real meaning of this song.Baby when your grindingI get so excitedOhh how I like itI try but I cant fight itOh your dancing real closeNow swing it real slowYou're making it hard for me If youre dancing with a guy, and you make them hard on the dance floor .. then the girl has some mad skills .. and the boy .. you need to get laid.

Have you ever had a friend that you have friend-zoned before? I think I may have friend-zoned a few here and there in my life time that's for sure. My closest guy friend E for an instance. He would do anything for me, he listens to my problems, drives me here and there for lunch, plans outings, pays for lunch, ...

Dont you sometimes want to drink your problems away ... I do sometimes ...

So the leaves have turned yellow,brown and red and are falling off the trees. The trees look so ugly now :/ Its getting colder (no more short shorts), its raining, everyone i know has the flu (its a good time to be a chicken soup vendor) and the wind is horrendous. This change can mean only one thing my friends... ...

So i was planning to go to Sri Lanka in December, but that didnt work out because of the bastards at work :/ so, I'm going somewhere in January because my birthday is in January! Im not going to go to Sri Lanka in Jan because I'm going in May for my cousins wedding, so thats out.But any other suggestions?

I love tea. I drink tea about 3 times a day… even more sometimes. Sri Lankans and most South Asians drink tea in these situations: when guests come over, when we are going through some kind of emotional problem, when we are bored, when we are hungry (I am not sure how tea fills you up.. but we do it ...

What do you do when you have absolutely nothing to do... think about everything. When I went to Oregon over the summer I spent a lot of time by the Ocean. I thought about getting away from it all, the rat race, the terrible expectations put on me by everyone. But here I am getting ready for another work week. ...

What's your biggest turn on? for me its this: A man with sexy hands touching my thighs. Like so:I swear if a guy did this to me I would melt... instantly. Of course not just anyone is allowed to do this to me ( I mean .. its me .. did you think I would let just any hobo off the street touch me like this?) , the precondition is that you MUST have sexy manly hands. Otherwise, forget it. :P

All Sri Lankans have one dream. To get a degree (med,eng or law), earn lots of money, buy a fancy car, buy a huge ass house and ... well that's pretty much it. I know a lot of you that write to me say this... but I am not you're typical run of the mill Sri Lankan. I think I ...

One of my co-workers recently got engaged to this wonderful man. I remember when she got engaged over the summer she couldn't stop talking about him and how wonderful he was etc etc. But this has changed, I was having coffee with her this evening and she was telling me about how she is absolutely infatuated with this other man ...

Why is it that you always want what you can't have? even though "that thing" that you want is bad for you... you cant help but wonder "what if". That thing you truly want causes all kinds of problems and its only there for short time satisfaction. When you look at the big picture that thing that you want so ...

I've been a little bad lately ... Je voudrais vous voir a poil! ;)Google translate that shit if you don't speak french :P

Sri Lankans are a judgmental group of people. We judge you all day every day ... from the outfits you wear to the way you talk we judge you. White people especially foreigners that come to Sri Lanka take the wrath of this judgement from the locals often in a very unfortunate way sometimes.Recently a group of my friends went ...

I have a weakness, the first one is not updating my damn blog on a regular basis and the second is French and British guys. As a women in a committed relationship this might seem a bit weird. But there is something about those accents that just make me swooooooon.One of my co-workers is British. He is around 40 and ...

Some of the summer songs that I have been loving so far ( New and Old )Passion Pit - Constant Conversations On public transportation staring outside the window ... its raining ... this song is perfectSister WifeThis song is best sung with your friends ... outside on a hot summers dayAlpineI mean this song is so funky ... I love ...

I have a bunch of Sri Lankan friends in their early 20's who are single ( they have never been allowed to date) and now they are constantly going on and on about how dreadful being single is. I don't know if you all are single ... but for me singledom was 3.5 years ago, and I barely remember how ...

I've been getting a lot of lovely emails from many of you sexy people lately. But I just want to let you all know that I just can't reply if you don't type in your email at the end !!! So I am going to give you my email address for the blog so I can reply to each and ...

So before I begin this post, I just want everyone to know that K is 9 months younger than I am. Before we started dating I always knew that he was younger than me but it really didn't matter to me ( I actually wished he was older). I have realized that all the guys that actually have truly liked ...

So finally two of my friends and my cousin have decided to go on a Road trip to Banff. To all my international readers here is what Banff looks like.Stunning right!My friend C and I have been planning this since March. I initially thought that like many things we plan, this was one of those things that we would never ...